Cyber hug: Can online friendships truly work?


In this internet generation, making friends has become more convenient.  Joining a forum, an online group, tweeting about a certain topic, reblogging a meme, or finding "mutuals" following the same hashtag can pave the way for people from different parts of the world to create online friendships.  However, many question the quality of these relationships. 

Just like face-to-face friendships, online friendships can thrive or decline over time.  But in many cases, belonging to an online community and having virtual friends has become helpful for many people.  Those who are usually reserved in person can be more articulate and responsive on the net.  There are also people who find comfort by opening up to people they trust online.  While these people don't see each other in person regularly, the bond cannot be denied. 

Whether face-to-face or online, friendships are built on trust, acceptance, and shared interests.   While online contexts make this more convenient, these friendships are just as meaningful.  Having someone to talk to online can cater to an individual's needs that offline companions might not be able to provide.  For online friendships to truly work, both parties must continue to work on being there for each other even if they're confined to little chat boxes or video chats. 

Another good thing about finding an ally online is that it helps individuals better understand the people they deal with offline.  The people you meet online are just like the people you see every day.  If you feel compassion and understanding towards your "mutuals," then you'll somehow begin to see the people in your life in a different light. 

The key to a healthy relationship, whether online or offline, is to have meaningful communication.  Going online can be the first step for many to express how they truly feel.  And it's always a joy when you find someone who will understand and support you no matter what.

 Hello! I'm Wayne Imber, Ph.D. Psychologist, retired professor, and culinary experimenter. For similar reads, follow this page.  



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